10 Signs It Is Time to End a Relationship



1) You don’t like her.


A lot of times, my readers will tell me they are with someone because they are afraid
of not being able to “find someone better." I find this stupid and irresponsible. If you don’t like a person, Why stay?


The only time you should consider staying in a relationship if you do not like someone is if you are married and there are children involved. But even then, I would suggest a divorce if you can’t work things out. Kids aren’t stupid – they can tell daddy and mommy don’t love each other, and it’s going to create TONS of emotional baggage in the long run.


2) She doesn’t really like you.

If it’s clear that a woman is not really that into you, then you should just move on. I don’t care how much you are attracted to her. All I can see is that she doesn’t really like you…but is only with you because of certain circumstances.


If you constantly have to chase after her because you like her a lot more than she likes you, you WILL have TONS of relationship drama in the future. You can’t change how she feels. So just like it go and find someone who likes you as much as you like them.


3) You don’t like yourself when you are with her.

If you react negatively to her, to her family, or even to her friends or environment, it is a sign you will not have a good relationship with her in the long run. It’s a sign that your personality does not match with her environment. You will either become angry or “converted.” Sometimes, it’s both. (You get converted and hate yourself!)


People who are close tend to “rub off” each other in the long run – but mostly only when it comes to bad qualities.


Hang out with unethical business partners, and eventually you will be unethical. Stay in a relationship with serious character issues, and eventually you will become just as bad. Do you really want to become what you hate…and then hate yourself for it?


4) She has cheated more than once.

If a woman has cheated more than once, you can almost guarantee she will cheat again. It’s just part of her character. Don’t try to reform her. Spend your time building a great relationship with someone who’s worth your time instead.


5) She isolates you from her friends.


If a woman doesn’t want you to hang out with her friends and family, you should really ask yourself why. 9 out of 10 times, it’s a major red flag!


6) She has chronic character problems.


I can’t emphasize this one enough. Stay away from women with chronic character problems. They WILL such all your energy out of you and your life WILL start be get lots of drama!!!


7) You don’t respect one another.


Since a good relationship requires a high amount of romantic respect, a relationship will not last if you do not respect one another. If your girlfriend likes to belittle you, it’s time to find a better girlfriend. And if you think you are better than your girlfriend, you either need to keep your ego in check or you should find yourself a better woman.


8) One of you wants to “date around”.


If you want to “date around”, be honest to yourself and just break up. Don’t try to kid anyone. You don’t really like her THAT much.


If she wants to “date around”, tell her she has the complete freedom to do so – because you are no longer together anyway.


9) You fight all the time.


If you are fight all the time, it’s a sign you are with the wrong person. A firmly believe that not a single huge fight should happen within the first year of a relationship. So if you are fighting after 3 months, that's not a good sign at all.


10) Everyone is telling you to break up with her.


Usually friends and family are more objective because there are less emotions involved. So if everybody is telling you to ditch a girl, it’s time to think about why. Chances are, they are right.

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 17, 2010 · Leave a Comment...What do you think?